Recognize It’s Not about You"
From the Desk of Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
Emotional verbal abuse is toxic, clearly. But when on the receiving end, it can be confusing, debilitating and often keep you spinning.
It's the most common form of abuse within relationships. We hear about it daily and see its impact on people of all walks of life.
It has no particular target. Female, male; rich, poor; black, white, yellow; educated, professional and not; no specific religious or political orientation. It can show up in just about any household imaginable.
Yet when it does, we are in awe. Trying to understand it, trying to stop it, wanting to heal from its impact.
We know it is wrong. We know it hurts. And we realize our partner’s commentary to diffuse, minimize, justify and defend the emotional verbal abuse is utterly ridiculous.
We seek to stop the ongoing flow of verbal licks and emotional manipulations. And we long to heal from the scars of emotional verbal abuse. Question is how?
We’ve just met, so let me introduce myself. as you may be wondering, why listen to me?
I have been helping people identify emotional verbal abuse for nearly a decade. And I serve as a consulting expert on both civil and criminal cases, when emotional verbal abuse spirals out of control.
The first book I wrote on the subject, All But My Soul. became a college textbook in criminal justice. Since this time, I’ve published over 100 articles on identifying, ending and healing physical, emotional and verbal abuse.
I am a seasoned psychologist of 27 years. And this background gives me the benefit of understanding the psychosocial dynamics that bind abusive relationships as well as the mechanics of healing relationship abuse.
Knowing "It" from the Inside Out
But all of my knowledge about the dynamics of emotional verbal abuse and healing from partner abuse doesn’t come from the hundreds of books I have read or from the people I have helped. It also comes from the fact that I, too, lived the nightmare of emotional verbal abuse.
So I know it from the inside out as well. And I know how hard it is to sort out what's his/hers from what’s yours.
I truly understand how important it is for you to clearly identify and end emotional verbal abuse when you’re struggling with it at home and in your relationship. And I know the benefits this will yield to you and to your entire family.
End Your Confusion about Emotional Verbal Abuse
In as little as one hour, you can be well on your way identifying emotional verbal abuse as it lives in your relationship. And this clarification and understanding can equip you with the tools to avert the potential impact of emotional verbal abuse and even arrest its insidious flow.
"For the first time, I experienced "being heard." Reading these books resonated too deeply at times, and on other occasions gave voice and perspective to unresolved questions that have been brewing within. Thank you so much! I found it an enormously beneficial, enlightening and supportive
"Seeing the subtle signs helped me recognize what drives his verbal abuse." S.A. San Diego, CA
"The Secrets for Greater Well-Being are great to focus upon after a relationship where I became lost in doing what I felt I was “supposed” to be doing. I had lost myself and paid for it. Not a path I wish to walk again. " Anonymous Survivor
"It reinforced for me more about what I had acknowledged about the abuse. I must say it even validates the victim too. They will realize where the crazy making and confusion that an abuser does to his or her victim comes from." Anonymous Survivor
Emotional Verbal Abuse:
How to Recognize, Cope and Heal
Features and Benefits
Shows you the purpose emotional verbal abuse serves for your partner so that when you see it, you will respond in a way that supports your integrity.
Reveals what to be cognizant of in order not to internalize emotional verbal abuse.
Shows you professional recommendations for deflecting emotional verbal abuse before being blindsided by it.
Gives you an understanding of the larger context from which emotional verbal abuse exists, so you’re in a better position to deal with it for what it truly is, rather than from the confusion it can create.
Offers insight on "emotional safety" which serves to help you prevent the potential for emotional verbal abuse.
Allows you to see how and why it’s not about you, which liberates you from its potential mental and psychological devastation.
Helps you understand why your partner minimizes, distorts and denies his/her verbal assaults, which leaves you on top of the interaction rather than buried in it.
Shows you the relationship between other forms of domestic abuse and the role emotional verbal abuse plays in maintaining unequal power in a relationship.
Reveals the real problem with promises when it comes to emotional verbal abuse, which empowers you in your moments of reconciliation.
Teaches you how to stay out of the line of fire of emotional verbal abuse, so you can maintain your equanimity during relationship conflict.
Provides you with techniques to end mental memories of emotional verbal abuse so that you find your peace, harmony and well-being.
Gives you insight on fear and the choices you have regarding it, so that you can be empowered when faced with this emotion.
Shows you powerful methods for healing emotional verbal abuse freeing you from carrying these wounds any further in your life.
Gives you concrete secrets for establishing and maintaining greater well-being today and throughout your life.
For as little as one-fifth of a professional therapy session, you can have all of this information and insight, today.
And even better, you can have it right now from this website in a downloadable PDF file. No delivery, no shipping. Simple easy immediate access to help you usher in peace and well-being today.
And that’s not all. You will also receive 3 special reports (valued at $15) when you obtain your Emotional Verbal Abuse: How to Recognize, Cope and Heal eBook today.Source: www.preventabusiverelationships.com